Nuts and bolts meaning the basics of a sinking fund.

Sinking Fund Part 2

July 22, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 6 minutes Your Sinking Fund Nuts and Bolts… ….so you don’t get screwed up.  Sorry for the bad pun. My first installment was more the “why”, and this will be the “how”. If you haven’t read that first one, do it now or this one won’t make much sense to you. Here’s the last article on the…

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individual sinking because they didn't have a sinking fund

If you want to keep your head above water, you’ve got to start sinking! Sinking Fund Part 1

July 8, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 4 minutes ..What is a Sinking Fund? What’s that you say?  Sounds like an oxymoron (a what?). Sinking fund. OK, got your attention? Read on. It’s important.   If there’s one thing I wish Dave Ramsey would rant about more (I love his rants), it’s the importance of having a sinking fund.    This is the account…

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Items we buy often leave us feeling regret Sunk Cost Fallacy

The Sunk Cost Fallacy – Let it go!

June 14, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 5 minutes The Sunk Cost Fallacy – Let it go! Success in the area of personal finance is much more about behavior and habits than it is about math or head knowledge.  Sometimes the behavioral aspects are pretty obvious, like using a budget, living on less than you make, and getting out of debt.  But sometimes the…

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Person trying to determine if they should borrow from their 401k

Should I borrow against my 401k

May 28, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 3 minutes Should I borrow against my 401k   Should I borrow against my 401k? If you’re strapped for cash, for whatever reason, you may be tempted to take a loan out against your 401(K)?  Everybody tells you that’s the way to go, because you’ll be paying yourself back with interest!!  Woo hooo!!  What a deal, right? Well, no, not…

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Doors representing choices

You ALWAYS have a choice.

May 10, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 4 minutes You ALWAYS have a choice     I listened to a caller to the Dave Ramsey show not long ago, and part of the woman’s financial trouble was the large mortgage payment and mortgage debt that she had, and her difficulty selling the house for what she owed. When Dave asked her why she bought…

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Robot representing a human making money

14 Ways to make money

May 4, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 2 minutes 14 Ways to make money Making money before, during, and after your custody or legal battle is vital. You are almost certain to face financial challenges and issues. Don’t let this deter you in your fight for your child! This blog will provide 14 ways to make money to help fund your fight.  Life sometimes,…

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Thinking about why his budget isn't working

13 Reasons your Budget isn’t Working

April 22, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 4 minutes 13 Reasons your Budget isn’t Working (aka excuses!)   1.) You aren’t doing one. In your head doesn’t count.  It has to be written down (pencil and paper, or a computer program or spreadsheet, or in a phone app like Every Dollar).  I’ve heard way too many people SAY they do a budget but are…

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Attorney meeting with client

Attorney fee’s? | How to come up with them?

April 8, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 7 minutes Attorney fee’s: How to come up with them?   How do I come up with the money for attorney’s fees? This is a little longer than my usual blog article, but it’s important.  So sit down and pay attention, please. No matter which side of a separation or divorce you are on, the financial strains…

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Having to make a decision on giving money to a friend or family member

Should I give money to a friend or family member?

March 24, 2019 | 0

Reading Time: 4 minutes How to help without enabling bad behavior. We all know that one person.  It might be a family member….your broke brother-in-law, second cousin, or uncle.  Sometimes it’s even a close family member, like your grown son or daughter, a sibling, or your parents.  Or maybe it’s just a friend or neighbor. They keep asking you…

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Hi! I'm William Whitworth, a born again Christian, husband, author, entrepreneur, and most importantly, "Dad!". Over the course of 8 years, I had to fight tooth and nail for the right to see my daughter. My ex obtained unjustified restraining orders, lodged multiple complaints and made false allegations against me, including accusations of abuse and many other claims that simply were not true. I continued to fight for my right to be a vital part of my daughter's life and eventually won 50/50 shared custody! At times I even went months without hearing or seeing my child and I know personally the pain, frustrations, heartbreak, and disappointments along the way.

My hope and prayer is that we here at will be able to help you in your journey to being more involved in your child's life and the importance of a child having their father in their life. I'll be honest, it wasn't always an easy road, and I know that there will be additional struggles. My desire is that my experiences will help you on your journey. There are no iron clad guarantees; however, if you apply some of what I have learned over my 8 year journey it may help.Thanks,
— William Whitworth
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